For couples doing the real work of staying connected — to each other and to God. Real conversations. Real marriage. No pretending you have it figured out.
"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up."
— Ecclesiastes 4:9–10Connected Couples isn't a marriage workshop. It's not a therapy session. It's couples — at different stages, different lengths of marriage, different everything — sitting in a room and being honest about what's actually happening.
The conversations go places most couples don't get to on their own. About faith, about each other, about the gap between the couple you are and the couple you want to be.
Led by Fly Ty and Jacinda Jacobs — and their leadership team. Every couple on the team takes turns navigating, teaching, and sharing, so you get a fresh perspective every time you come. That's part of what makes this unique.
We laugh. A lot. We've become genuine friends walking alongside each other in our marriages. And through every stage — the hard ones included — we keep coming back to the same thing: keeping God at the center.
"The question isn't 'are you still in love?' That part is easy. The real question is — are you still doing life together? Are you keeping God at the center, in every season, every stage?"
They founded Stolen Lunches together and built something that serves thousands — and they still show up for each other first. Alongside their leadership team of couples, they've created a space where faith, friendship, and marriage all get to be in the same room.
Rooftops. Campsites. Lounges. Living rooms. Every gathering is different. The energy stays the same.
Monthly gatherings with couples at every stage — bringing honesty, laughter, and faith into the same room.
We have a private GroupMe just for Connected Couples — where we share updates, stay in touch between gatherings, and keep the community going.
Both of you can sign up together, or just one of you can start the conversation. We'll send the details your way.
"Real marriage is built in rooms like this — where you stop performing and start talking."
— Stolen Lunches